So, you’ve met a guy and you feel he is THE ONE because things are going well.
However, there seems to be a dent somewhere but you are not able to really figure this out clearly.
He changes the speed and direction of the relationship by holding back from getting serious about the relationship.
At some point you may start wondering if he likes/loves you or he is just after getting sex from you.
Well, here are some of the key signs to know he just wants sex and doesn’t like you.
- You only meet on his terms and conditions
He will be one calling the shots and choosing when and where you two meet most of the time. He often calls when he is in the mood maybe after a drink and wants a booty call. If you try to see him on your terms he always makes excuses not to show up. In this case, you are a convenient option for him when he is in the mood for sEx.
2. He avoids hanging out with you in the day time
Hanging out in day time may lead to cute couple day-time activities which may make the relationship appear ‘serious’.
When he decides to meet you, you may notice its always in the late evenings/ nights even when it’s possible to meet up in day time. He tries as much as possible to avoid any level of commitment in the relationship.
Note: If he really loves/likes you, he would be excited to spend time with you not only indoors, but also doing outdoor activities and create memories.
3. He avoids introducing you to his friends
For how long will he keep you away from the rest of his life, like real life.
In the beginning of the relationship, he may be taking time to know you better before introducing you to his friends, family etc, which is okay. But if he continuously keeps you away from his friends, social life, and such, then there is a problem.
He does the same on your side, avoids meeting your friends or getting involved with anything else in your life apart from ‘bed skills’.
Note: If he really means it, then he should include you in his life plans and let you meet his friends.
4. He never replies to you until when he wants indoor (bed) time with you
Maybe you always have to text a million times to get his attention? He only responds when he wants something from you, which in most cases is sex.
Note: If he loves/ likes you, he would enjoy having chats with you whenever possible especially after work, school, or tea break.
5. There is no foreplay
When it comes to sex, does it feel like it’s all about him? Does he take time to prepare you sexually through foreplay? Then there is a problem. He is not investing in this because he doesn’t want any long-term commitment. He also doesn’t care whether you enjoy the sex or not. At the end of it, you may feel used and that is not how things should be.
Note: If he likes you, he would make sure you both enjoy your intimate moments rather than making you feel used.
